the essay covers the gamit of the questions we struggle with. It's a tad on the long side (3 pages I'd guess) but it says everything I believe and explains how we are different and why we can never be like them. The link and a couple of quotes:
http://www.theamericanscholar.org/wi07/scooterandme-bromell.htmlthe author starts with this quote:
When I say that the conservative lacks principles, I do not mean to suggest that
he lacks moral conviction. The typical conservative is indeed usually a man of
very strong moral convictions. What I mean is that he has no political principles
which enable him to work with people whose moral values differ from his
own for a political order in which both can obey their convictions.
—F. A. Hayek, Why I Am Not a Conservative
I went away to boarding schools in the early 1960s, and at one of these my best friend was a boy named Scooter...
So, for six years I’ve been obsessed with Scooter. Every time I read a newspaper, I see Scooter and me hunched over a game of Stratego (which he usually won), or I see him faking right before hooking left so I can hit him with a pass in the end zone. Walking my dog through the woods around our house, I chant the mantra of questions I literally ache to ask him: How could you work for an administration that denies global warming and supports tax breaks for large SUVs? How could you work for an administration that cuts funding for birth control to the poorest people in our country and the world? How could you so brazenly exaggerate the threat of Saddam Hussein having weapons of mass destruction, and how could you so foolishly imagine that American troops would be welcomed in Baghdad with cheers and flowers?
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This difference came into sharp focus when I happened to read an article by Lynne Cheney, the wife of his boss. As an English professor, I couldn’t resist its title: “The Roots of Today’s Lying Epidemic: The English Department Virus.” In it, Cheney claims that lowly English departments are “a primary source of the epidemic of lying currently upon us.”...
A liberal, as I use the term, is someone who never gives up trying to see the other person’s point of view. A liberal never stops doubting himself, for self-doubt is precisely what allows us to make room in our minds for someone else’s views and to keep the possibility of communication between us alive. A fundamentalist, on the other hand, is someone to whom the very idea of point of view is immaterial, or worse—the foundation of relativism. A warrior who pledges fealty to the god of one Truth, a fundamentalist searches for personal conviction, not mutual understanding. So she regards skepticisms as apostasy, hesitations as heresy, and doubts as moral turpitude.
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I've often asked, as many here have, Why don't the dems fight back as dirty as the do? This article explores that and many other issues. I loved it.