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A few people have recommended librarian. That requires a Master's Degree. As you did not reply to the specifics, I can only hope that he is receiving help from a therapist, or at least a 12 Step program. It is very difficult for a male over 40 to get a job--even if they have work experience, and a clean record.
My brother was in a similar situation, and at 43 years old he had to "settle" for any job that would have him. His poor history made any claims of genius a moot point. My brother worked in the boat factory for 5 years, he stopped breaking the law, and he stopped drinking. He first went into a rehab, that did not work that well. But AA, for him, did work. After 5 years, he moved on to a better job.
I wish your son the best. My heart goes out to him. And it was very hard on our father and mother when my brother was always being chased by the law, going to prison, etc. They had to stop allowing him to sponge off of them every time he claimed he wanted "to change my life around." It was his way to use them. My mom shed many tears over him.
If your son WANTS to change his life, that is a start, he may have to think of returning to school (again, one needs funds,), or taking an entry level menial labor job to build up a work history.
My father was a brilliant man. He was an alcoholic. When he got sober, he had to face the facts of his actual life. His genius only got him a job as a janitor (due to his work history). But within 6 years he had been promoted 4 times. Once to supervisor of a large department. It was not his genius, it was his hard work, and his love of family that pulled him through.
My IQ is 165+, that is 35 points over the genius score of 130 on the WAIS test. Genius can be pretty meaningless when one factors in the reality of one's actions in how one lives. I squandered much of my life, and my brains really got in the way much of the time. I used "brilliance" as avoidance. A way of feeling unique. I, too, had to "bite the bullet," and start my life much later than many other people do.
If I were great at counting cards I would be in Vegas instead of typing. Being a "genius" does not mean one is "smart."
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