Your story is not dissimilar to my father's. It's the story of a reality - that some people get excellent and appropriate assistance from their society of which they are a part, relative to the specifics of their situation.
My father is a veteran. He suffered from undiagnosed PTSD for most of his life following combat service in Vietnam. My father went through bankruptcy, lose his home and ended up being forced to move in with my mom's mom. That was supposed to be short term. But then my father was assaulted by one substantial health crisis after another. Stroke. Bells Palsy. Skin Cancer. Diabetes.
His health deteriorated further and further, and it became impossible for him to work. Eventually, there was a crisis with my mom's mom. I won't go into details, but she was mentally unstable, and it became literally unsafe for my father to remain there. He was forced onto the street, with just some belongings and a van, with enough money for one or two nights in a motel.
To shorten this story up, I and friends worked to connect my father with local social services, to get emergency assistance. Eventually representatives from the VA made my father aware of resources available to him. Two years later, he was approved for permanent total disability through the VA due to a now-diagnosed PTSD and health complications related to trauma. Today my father, who cannot work on his owns, receives enough income through government assistance to have his needs met and met comfortably - with even enough resources to enjoy some creature comforts during his remaining years.
That's the story of the system working for someone. And thank god for that.
But now let me talk to you from my perspective as a young(ish) social worker. Though currently unemployed and looking for work, I've had the privilege of working for community agencies proving assistance to low income individuals and families. Many of our clients were homeless, others were on the brink of being homeless. Still others had just taken the plunge from that bottom wrung of so-called "middle class" into poverty, by losing that last paycheck. Many came with untreated mental illness, nearly all came in deep emotional crisis.
My perspective is one of watching needs go unmet day after day after day after day. For every person out there who has sufficiently benefited from our societies social welfare programs when they rightfully needed them, there is at least one other person who has not been so lucky. Truth be told, the ratio is higher than one to one, but its 3:37am, and I don't have access to all of my saved social research on stagnation in poverty and the gap between services and need. You can take my word for it, OR we can just keep taking about even a one to one ratio, which in my opinion is still tragically high.
Here's some other realities from my perspective as a macro social worker, i.e. one choosing a focus on social inequality and analysis of public policy through the lens of social work - specifically through the lens of the National Association of Social Workers Code of Ethics:
-- Poverty, while declining during the era of the War on Poverty (imperfect though the "war" may have been) has since risen sharply, then stagnated at this tragically high level, with modest dips or increases depending on year. A greater percentage of people live in relative poverty (relative meaning one's ability to fully participate in the society in which one exists) than do in the next top twenty industrialized nations in the world.
-- Wages for non-supervisory workers, the working class, have either stagnated or declined over the last 30 years, depending on which economic sub-strata you examine (persons at the poverty line, persons at 200% of poverty line, persons at 400% of poverty line, etc.)
-- Income inequality, the measure of the gap between a societies highest income earners and its lowest income earners, used to be moderately narrow. In my lifetime it has exponentially widened and shows no signs of stopping. The rich are literally getting richer while the poor are literally getting poorer. That's not just a cliche - its a statistical reality.
-- Wealth inequality measurements - not just income by total wealth and assets - are even more off the charts, as a substantial number of the "mid" middle class are asset poor, and thus one paycheck away from ruin.
-- Once upon a time wages were closely coupled with productivity, and when productivity rose wages also rose. After Reagan, wages and productivity decoupled, productivity measurements exploded while wages for workers (as I described above) stagnated or declined.
-- Among the top 20 peer industrialized nations in the world, we currently rank
worst in multiple categories, that for me I consider to be moral imperatives:
Income Inequality: U.S. First (meaning worst)
Overall Poverty Rate: U.S. Highest
Child Poverty Rate: U.S. Highest
Elderly Poverty Rate: U.S. Highest
Infant Mortality Rate: U.S. First (meaning worst)
Leisure Time: U.S. Last (meaning worst)
Maternity Leave: U.S. Last (meaning worst)
http://practical-vision.blogspot.com/search?q=Blind+Eyes&submit=Search">Sourcehttp://www.stateofworkingamerica.org/tabfig.html">Source for many of the previous statements[br />
People coming into my office for assistance back when I was employed were regularly turned away. People left hungry. People left homeless. People left without the access to medicine or clothing that they needed. People left without access to mental health services because there was simply no room for new clients any places that could take individuals without ability to pay if they were not in immediate life danger.
What Does all of this Lead me to Conclude
It leads me to conclude that the fact that some people manage to be well treated by our social safety net, it is insufficient. And its not insufficient because our political-economic system is simply doings its best and there's just not enough to go around. It's insufficient because our political-economic system priorities other needs ahead of social investment.
That's what social "welfare" really is by the way - social investment. It's not a handout. It's in everyone's long term best interests that there are fewer people on the streets, and fewer people in abject poverty and fewer people without sufficient access to mental and physical health services. A healthy, secure, stable workforce is key to long term economic sustainability.
Some people are getting what they need from our social safety net. But not enough people are, and fewer people are getting what they need now than in times past. Lest we forget the elimination of true "welfare" and its replacement with TANF. Lest we ignore cuts in a majority of states to social services. Lest we ignore all the of the facts I detailed above.
We have a society that does still have some measure of social investment programs. But those programs are not getting stronger when you look at a multi-decade analysis. They are getting weaker. And they are consistently under assault by the right, and bargained away in compromise by the left.
Even if there are some benefits that work for some people in our society today, its pretty hard to dispute that our political system prioritizes the wants and whims of the financial elite first, and the needs of poor and working class individuals and families second. The benefits that exist reflect that prioritization. Many of our social investment programs came from a time in our national history where it could be argued that the prioritization of the wants of the financial elite was not as clear-cut, and that the needs of the poor and working class garnered greater moral concern. But its hard to argue that policy over the last thirty years has reflected that.
Again, I don't know of too many people who say "you are wrong, our government makes poor people its first focus when making policy or passing legislation, demanding that the wants of the investor class, billionaires and multi-billion dollar corporations either be a secondary priority or equal priority with the needs of ordinary Americans."
I don't know too many who would say that with a straight face. What people do say - and this is an understandable perspective - is that the dream of a society that prioritizes the needs of marginalized populations without political influence or monetary bargaining power ahead of the demands of those with the power to stop any good policy from every happening is a pipe dream - a utopia that does not exist.
I'm not dismissive of that argument. I respect if, even if I do not fully agree with it.
But let's start by agreeing on the reality that our political-economic system does not prioritize the needs of poor and working class individuals and families ahead of the wants and whims of the financial elite.
Since that is true, then at least to some extent that sets up two different "classes" of people. The first class is the one that gets its wants considered first, and considered more carefully and with more weight. The second class is the one that gets its needs looked at secondarily, in deference to the interests of that first class.
The dangers of complacency
Forgive me for including sub-headings. I know that can look silly, but this is also quite long so I thought it might be visually helpful. And let me just say, I'm fully aware that you might not be inclined to read all of this. And I'm fearful that others reading this will think its extremely pretentious of me, or think I just like the sound of my own voice or something.
All I can tell you is that what you wrote just set off and explosion of thoughts and feelings in my mind, such that I felt like I just had to write about it - needed to get it off my chest. Please don't think that I think more of myself than I do just because I've written so much. Sheer tonnage of all the things I don't know, all the confusion I have, all the ignorance and shortsightedness I posses could stop a truck in its tracks. Thanks for your understanding.
Back to point, here's my fear: just because an individual might be well taken care of the system does not mean he or she serves as a representative example of how the system functions. You are well taken care of. My father was well taken care of. And then there are the hundreds of people who went away from my office not well taken care of.
You wrote that you don't want to burn down the house that you live in, you want to make more rooms. But my fear is that this sentiment can easily get twisted into a fear of losing what one has so great that it makes them unwilling to accept the gross failure of our system. I worry that it can become something like "I'm taken care of, so I don't want to risk any change, regardless of how inequitable the system may be for countless others."
I often worry about the people who have a little, even more than I worry about the people that have a lot. Because I fear that they might be more susceptible to becoming the people most passionately defending the status quo.
But then there's the second part of your statement - the desire to make "more rooms" as you put it. I will tell you that this is exactly how I felt and what I said for many years. But one thing changed that for me. It was when I was in graduate school (remember I told you I've had some privileges) getting my MSW studying policy and the history of social welfare in the United States.
People have been talking about making "more rooms" in this home for most of my lifetime. And during that time what has happened? We haven't made more rooms - we've made less.
Something about the idea of using Democrats to make more rooms in this system does not seem to be working. Instead what seems to happen is republicans come to power and put our country into a steep decline, then democrats take over and level it out. They don't undo all the damage that has been done, they don't take steps to put social policy back on an incline. They simply pull us out the the nose dive and establish a new "flatline." Then repbulicans come back into power and put us into a new nose dive, driving the country even lower. And Democrats come back into power and they level out and establish a new "flatline."
That's what leads me to conclude that the system is broken, and both parties are contributing to our social decline. I believe the system "broke" in the mid 1970s, when corporations decided that the best way to handle government was to buy it out. The financial elite have spent the last thirty years essentially buying out the heart of both the national Republican part and national Democratic Party. Both parties are not the same. But they are both failing the American people. Failing.
I feel that we keep perpetuating that failure because we fear the chaos that might ensure if we started to take a real stand. There might be Republicans elected in the short run, I really don't know. But the fear of that reality has stifled any serious talk of standing up for a system in which the needs of ordinary Americans are placed first, with the interests of the financial elite mandated to be met only when they are in service to the interests of ordinary Americans.
If you're still with me (and I really understand if you aren't,) then one last thought:
When I talk about rejecting this national political system, its not because I am naive enough to believe that a glorious peoples revolution is just around the corner. It's not that I think that we're on the verge of a massive, nation-wide movement to end this corporatocacy and reinstate a truly representative democracy. I'm not necessarily optimistic about that.
What I want though, is for people to stop making excuses for this failed national system, and both the parties that comprise it. Yes, I know this is Democratic Underground and I realy appreciate that so far I still get to post here. I used to be a Democrat when I first started reading here so long ago, but I'm not anymore. And yet I still care about the people - many good, amazing people who identify as Democrats. I feel that the system has failed, but there are countless ordinary Americans identifying as Democrats who are full of passionate commitment to social and economic justice. That's why I still want to participate in this community.
What I want is for people to accept that this system has failed, and put their hope and efforts into other places besides Washington politics and party politics. Maybe for some that will mean speaking out and trying to organize real movements. That's wonderful. But in other cases I think it just means refocusing from the national stage to the community stage.
In cities and municipalities, in counties and states - this is where real battles are being fought and won - yes won! - but those who put the needs of poor and working class individuals and families first. National politics is not going to save us, especially not in this system which has failed. But grassroots efforts absolutely make a difference. My best friend hasn't paid an once of attention to the last six months of health care wrangling in Washington. But as program coordinator for the Community Housing Alliance of Cincinnati, she has busted her ass to get people into safe housing and off the streets, to organize and lobby city hall and state government to change polices to put the needs of the poor first - and she's won tangible victories that have translated into substantive change for real people, and changed policy in Cincinnati.
Progressive have desired living wage law at the federal level for ages, but also dismiss that desire as nothing but a pipe dream - something that will never happen in that failed system. And yet today over one hundred and twenty cities and municipalities have passed living wage laws all over this country, with more votes on the horizon. And a lot of people who can't do anything of impact the failed system in Washington have pour time and energy into these efforts and seen victory.
Washington corporatism and its influence that has poisoned both parties will not get us where we need to be. It has killed the national political system. It has failed ordinary Americans and appears to beyond hope of saving from the inside. I think we should consider focusing on our own communities, our own neighborhoods and schools, our own counties and our own states - places where we can walk up to elective officials and look them right in the eye - because I believe that grassroots level is where change happens. And I believe if there is ever to be any hope of saving our failed national poltical system, it won't come from the top-down, or by just reelecting the same Democrats over and over. I believe it will come from the bottom up, as we pour our energy into our communities and watch the fruits of our labor grow and expand.
Thanks for listening. I apologize for the length. Please understand (though I guess this is probably too much information) that I am under the influence of a very powerful (by prescription) pain killer, as I have a severe back condition. It makes it difficult to organize my thoughts, or edit effectively. But I wanted so much to write about all these things you made me think about before I didn't feel the "passion" anymore.
My best to you!
PH