Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

The Colors of a Tragedy. VT and Godless Grieving

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) Donate to DU
 
no_hypocrisy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 07:31 PM
Original message
The Colors of a Tragedy. VT and Godless Grieving
Edited on Mon Apr-23-07 07:33 PM by no_hypocrisy
Today the colors of a tragedy are orange and maroon, the school colors of Virginia Tech. Margaret Downey, president of the Atheist Alliance International has encouraged the atheist community to mourn the loss of innocent lives by wearing orange and maroon clothing today.

Atheists realize that there is only one life and are deeply saddened when it is prematurely taken from anyone.

"We are further saddened by the loss of young people who had so much to offer the world. When a young person dies, we mourn not only the life that was, but also the life that might have been," Downey said.

Speaking of a person's legacy and recounting life stories brings a person back to life in our hearts and minds. Remember them and they will live again.


http://atheistalliance.org/library/news_042007.php
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 07:35 PM
Response to Original message
1. I'm a person of faith and grief to me is less about Heaven and
more about missing the person. I firmly and totally believe in an afterlife. I don't think I could cope if I didn't think I would see some of my departed family ever again, so I choose to believe.

Grief is grief, at least to me. I don't think an atheist's grief is any less painful.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #1
3. perhaps it is moreso
because atheists believe consciousness ceases when a person dies. Your belief and mine say it continues, and so we comfort.

It is important to be there--and just be--for a grieving person, I think. Allow them to share their pain, their anger, and their memories. Having compassion for another is the key here.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 07:42 PM
Response to Reply #3
4. You could be right. I have a hope that I hold onto.
I'm not sure where I would be if I didn't.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 07:50 PM
Response to Reply #4
5. I have hope
and experiences that make me know that death is a transition of consciousness.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-23-07 07:35 PM
Response to Original message
2. Thanks for this
and thanks to Margaret Downey encouraging this. So many Americans have distorted views of atheism, and think of non-believers as having no moral compass or compassion. Acts like this are a good way to educate people.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Sun Nov 03rd 2024, 08:06 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC