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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:33 PM
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Mother Of Nine Says She Was Sterilized Against Her Will
Mother Of Nine Says She Was Sterilized Against Her Will

She wanted doctors to give her a birth control device. Instead, Tessa Savicki of Springfield, Mass., says they sterilized her.

Savicki claims doctors performed a tubal ligation on her without her consent. Now, the 35-year-old mother of nine is suing Baystate Medical Center in Springfield, as well as three doctors and two nurses.

Savicki's nine children range in age from 3 to 21. She tells the Boston Herald she wanted doctors to implant an intrauterine device after the birth of her son, Manuel Flores, in 2006. She specifically wanted a device that would be removable in case she wanted more children, she tells the newspaper. Instead, according to papers filed in Hampden County Superior Court on Nov. 24, 2009, doctors performed the tubal ligation.

The Herald reports Savicki receives medical insurance under the MassHealth program. Under state and federal rules, a MassHealth patient must give written permission for permanent sterilization at least 30 days before the procedure. Savicki claims she never gave that consent.

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The Herald reports Savicki's nine children have several fathers. She reportedly is unemployed and relies on public assistance for two of the four children who live with her.

She receives supplemental security income for non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, she tells the paper. Her mother has custody of three of her children, according to the Herald. Two of her children are grown.

Savicki tells the paper she realizes she might not cut the most sympathetic figure in the public eye, but basic rights are at stake.

"I would never have the right to tell anyone else 'because you have this many kids that's enough,' " she tells the Herald. "That's no one's right to say that. It's my choice. No one has the right to say you've had enough. I take care of my kids. I love my kids. I was not ready to make that kind of decision."

http://www.parentdish.com/2010/01/04/mother-of-nine-says-she-was-sterilized-against-her-will/

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ORDagnabbit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:34 PM
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1. should have done it after the 2nd one. n/t
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damntexdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:18 PM
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38. We may not approve of the choices, but she has a right to the choices.
This is a denial of basic reproductive rights, just of denial of access to abortion services is.
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ORDagnabbit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 06:25 PM
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42. I disagree if we didnt have to support those 9 kids with tax dollars. Its my society too not just
people like this.

identify the people unable to take care of themselves and prevent them from having children who immediately become a drain on society and further prevent the individual from becoming self sufficient.
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FLAprogressive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:35 PM
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2. She's right.
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Electric Monk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:38 PM
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3. Nine *isn't* enough?
Oh, the lawsuit is simply for funds to raise the ones she already has... got it.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:52 PM
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10. it is illegal to sterilize someone without her consent
end of story. she has a valid case and she will win.
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hlthe2b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:15 PM
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16. Yes... though to say she's not a sympathetic figure
rather underestimates the depth of her irresponsibility. But, she is right, she has a valid case; she will win.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:45 PM
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23. the law is in place precisely for people like her
poor, uneducated, undereducated, etc. the law is in place because in the past women were routinely sterilized without their consent...if they were poor, or black or young, or whatever. everyone has the right to make their own choice, even if the choices are stupid.
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:55 PM
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34. I agree with you but it sucks that the rest of us have to pay for those stupid choices.
One of the flaws in the system, IMO.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:10 PM
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36. no, it is not a flaw...it's called social welfare
and it's a pathetic, paltry, pittance compared to what we also pay for, like the illegal war in iraq and the foolish escalation in afghanistan, and the wall street bailout. i'd much prefer to give more direct aid to people than to continue to bailout corporations with the *hope*, and little more than hope, that some of it trickles down to the rest of us. i have no problem paying for the least of us, because that's what we should do...that's what all civilized industrial nations do...except us. i have a big problem paying to enrich the military-industrial complex in the vain hope that they will drop some crumbs for the rest of us to fight over.
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 06:33 PM
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44. You and I are in agreement completely.
And I am for social welfare, with restrictions and limitations. The lady in this story certainly justifies some restrictions and limitations, dont you think?
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 01:37 AM
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52. i'd like to see some restictions on my tax dollars
Edited on Wed Jan-06-10 01:38 AM by noiretextatique
paying for private contractors who torture people, and the billion dollars that went "missing" from the pentagon. how many children could we house and feed with that billion? what can this poor woman possibly give to...anyone? she gets subsistence, at best and if anything, i'd like to give poor people more money, along with more education and more real job opportunities. unemployment is at an all-time, jobs continue to outsourced to other countries...when will it end? when we are all begging on the streets for a dollar?
i am glad we are in agreement, but i'd like to see some restrictions on banks; it seems they are actually getting more and more greedy. i was overdrawn by $4.00 today, and my bank would not let me cash a state check, one that i wanted to deposit into their bank. i had to go to a check cashing outlet to cash the check (one that is probably owned by the same bank) to avoid an overdraft fee, then deposit cash into the account. i've had an account with them for several years, and that's the treatment i got. and WE bailed out these fuckers. sorry...i can't begrudge feeding, housing and educating the poor. it's a far better investment in the long term than throwing billions at corporations.

thanks for a civil conversation...rare on Du these days.
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nadinbrzezinski Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 01:50 AM
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55. Let me play a little devil's advocate
and no, not her right to her body, but a planet that has a smidgen of an over population problem. Do you think that the price we are paying for that as a species, see weather global change, will lead to limits in fertility?

And I mean that... as a real question we should now be asking. After all there is a real limit on how much the earth can supoort, and it goes beyond our imaginary devices called money.
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:26 PM
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17. Absolutely right. Whether you agree with her or not, this is a matter of reproductive choice.
You can't support choice for some and not support it for all.
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cutlassmama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 07:49 PM
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46. Agreed. n/t
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Laura902 Donating Member (333 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:39 PM
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4. Really torn
having too many children is one of the worst things you can do for the environment, but if it is the case that they abused their power and preformed a procedure that she did not want, I am in agreement with her. It is not within their rights.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:13 AM
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60. Having children she can't or won't take care of is even worse.
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Lance_Boyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:44 PM
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5. easily enough resolved - let the hospital produce the written permission
If they can, then she can STFU and quit lying. If they can't, she's not going to qualify for public assistance for those two kids anymore after winning the lawsuit.

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votingupstart Donating Member (535 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 08:14 PM
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47. agreed - either they got her permission or they didn't n/t
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pipi_k Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:45 PM
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6. We need a license to drive a car...
But any twit with properly operating gonads can pump out innocent children...as many as they want, without a thought to the safety or quality of life of those kids.

I hope she loses her case.

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brendan120678 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:44 PM
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22. Right, because...
reproductive choice is a silly concept anyways.










:sarcasm:
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liberalhistorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:47 PM
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25. Really? So doctors should have the right to perform procedures
on patients without their consent because of what THEY think and/or the state demands it? Really? You really and honestly believe that?
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EOTE Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:50 PM
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29. Really? Just where would you draw the line?
Is it OK for mothers of 8 to be sterilized against their will? Perhaps only if those 8 children are from multiple fathers? At just what point does it become OK for someone to be sterilized against their will? This isn't a rhetorical question, I'm very much interested in an answer.
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mtnester Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 06:39 PM
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45. Yeah! Because it should always be OK for doctors to perform medical procedures on you without
your permission any time they feel like it for whatever reason they feel like


now, back to the real world...where everyone's head is NOT up their own rear end



(do I really need a sarcasm tag?)
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varelse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 09:09 PM
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51. We need a license to drive a car on public roads
A person's body is private, not public property.

We don't need a license to live - at least not in the US.
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JTFrog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 01:43 AM
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53. So if someone crashes more than two or three times we'll just cut off their arms so they can't drive
Edited on Wed Jan-06-10 01:45 AM by JTFrog
Sounds about right. :eyes:
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GreenStormCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:45 PM
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7. She is right, but neither should she be able to demand that society...
absorb the cost of her irresponsibility. That is one of the great difficulties of being a compassionate person. The ones who would be punished if society were to stop the aid to her would be her innocent children. But living on welfare and pumping out kids is wrong too.

I am not sorry to see her sterilized. There should be some sort of legal proceeding for situations like this, that say, "Enough". Does the world need more of her DNA in future generations?
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dixiegrrrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:19 PM
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39. Wow....eugenics raises its head again.


"Be careful about deciding what is best for the other guy.
He may be deciding what is best for YOU".
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:50 PM
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8. why not sterilize the woman on teevee with 19 or 20 kids?
:eyes:
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:52 PM
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11. Because she's on TV and famous...
Edited on Tue Jan-05-10 03:53 PM by WillBowden
Duh. :P
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:56 PM
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12. but of course
so it really isn't about the number of kids, just who pays for them, per some of the posters here. DU sickens me more and more each day, present company excluded :hi:
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liberalhistorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:50 PM
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31. Because Mrs. Duggar and the other "quiverfuls" are
the "right" kind of people, so that's different. :sarcasm: :sarcasm:
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Spike89 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 03:52 PM
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9. No brainer. A woman's body is hers
Doctors, society, judges, etc. have no right to take away any woman's reproductive rights.
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patricia92243 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:09 PM
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13. You are right. My first reaction was that she had more than enough children, etc. Then I read
your post. It reminded me that if women loose control of their bodies in one instance - they will loose them again and again. Thanks for the reminder!!

:)
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Lance_Boyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:12 PM
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14. I find it very hard to believe this was done without the required permission
and there should be evidence of that written permission to settle the matter.

On the other hand, it could be that she requested an IUD and received a tubal ligation, and it may not have been a mistake. What is the hospital's/surgeon's side of this story?

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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:00 AM
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57. It used to happen routinely to anyone deemed "less desirable" -- now it is more rare.
As much as I am appalled at her "choice" to have 9 kids starting at age 14, there are laws in place now that forbid sterilization on the unwilling or unwitting. A favorite tactic was to ask for consent forms to be signed after the woman was drugged-up from childbirth or for surgery. I think she is likely to have a case.

Hekate
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:15 AM
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64. The state of Nebraska made my ex-sister-in-law get this done
She had 4 children, all on welfare. This was in the early 80's
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:14 PM
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:50 PM
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30. please report for your forced sterilization
since you are so eager to force that upon others. thank you.
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:18 PM
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37. Are you familiar with the case Buck v. Bell?
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cmkramer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 03:50 PM
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65. I am n/t
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LiberalFighter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:26 PM
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18. I wonder if she has told the truth.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:48 PM
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27. Remember the girl who had 52 stars tattooed on her face,
and then claimed that she only asked for 3?

She finally admitted that she asked for all 52 stars on her face but regretted it the next day.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:49 PM
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28. it's really quite simple
either she informed about the sterilization or not. if she wasn't informed, as she claims, she has a valid complaint and lawsuit. if she was informed, she doesn't.
i just had a hysterectomy recently and they asked me if i knew i would be sterilized so many times it was absurd. i am 51, so i could care less about having a uterus. but i live in california, so i am not sure if the requirements are as stringent in come other states. i suspect they aren't.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:26 PM
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19. That's assult. Jail the docs.
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get the red out Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:26 PM
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20. She is correct
If they won't do it for mercy to the damned religious nut-cases that are treated worse than brood mares by their raging, patriarchial male owners then they shouldn't do it to this woman because her kids have different fathers.
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Lance_Boyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:32 PM
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21. Hrm... she's profited from this sort of suit before...
"In 2001, the newspaper reports, Savicki reached an out-of-court settlement with CVS pharmacy and a spermacide company after she claimed she was sold an expired spermacide."

And apparently she's fired the first lawyer she hired for this case. "In response to a request for her medical records, a former attorney for Savicki received a letter from the hospital last May..."

I wonder what her history of slip-and-fall suits looks like. She may be worse than unsympathetic - she may be the face of lawsuit abuse.

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brendan120678 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:46 PM
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24. So she's more of a poster-child for...
litigation reform, not a sympathetic victim of reproductive rights abuse.
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Romulox Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:48 PM
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26. Put me on the jury--I'll award her $1.00. nt
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Hello_Kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:51 PM
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32. If what she alleges is true, the doctors involved should lose their licenses.
If she didn't authorize the procedure, they shouldn't have done it.

For the record, I think she's nuts and I feel sorry for those kids.
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 04:54 PM
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33. "I take care of my kids" - No you don't the state does!
But it is her right to have as many kids as she wants. It sucks that our system enables people like this to make stupid choices with little or no consequences.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:02 PM
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35. The hospital/staff had no right to perform that surgery without her consent.
Edited on Tue Jan-05-10 05:05 PM by Solly Mack
None.


This isn't about her decisions...this is about the decisions of the hospital/staff.

Her actions don't make their actions right or moral or legal.


She might not be a role model but that doesn't mean she loses her rights. If it bears out there was no written consent then the hospital/staff is in the wrong.

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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:20 PM
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41. yup
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 05:20 PM
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40. i hope she is lying because otherwise they did a terribly unethical and immoral thing
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 06:27 PM
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43. This is horrible. That poor woman. This is not unheard of, of course.
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 08:22 PM
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48. I don't believe she did NOT give permission. Sorry. And who knows, maybe it was part of some legal
Edited on Tue Jan-05-10 08:24 PM by KittyWampus
agreement she's too fucked up to remember making.

Amazing so many DU'ers are happy to take what she says as the truth.
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MrsMatt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 08:27 PM
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49. I'm having some trouble understanding
Edited on Tue Jan-05-10 08:30 PM by MrsMatt
something about her story. She claims that SHE brought the IUD into the operating room, in the box, unopened.

1. Why an operating room - aren't most IUDs inserted on an outpatient basis?
2. IUDs are not something one can pick up at the drugstore, right? Why would the patient be bringing in her own IUD.?
3. I've never heard of anyone getting an IUD at the same time as having a Caesarian, as she's claiming.

It just seems so fishy.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 01:56 AM
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56. There are some research studies looking at IUD insertion during a c-section.
I haven't found any results, but some places are doing it. The worry seem to be that some women won't show up for follow-up appointments, so inserting the IUD during a section or prior to hospital discharge for vaginal deliveries seems to be catching on. I imagine that considering her history that looked like a real reasonable option- if the doctors told her to come back in 10 weeks she'd probably bring #10 with her.

Also, doctors show patients the IUD or a model in advance as part of patient education. If it was "her" IUD and not a demonstrator, it would have been wrapped in clear plastic for sterility and come with a little plunger dealie for insertion.
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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:14 AM
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61. Interesting. I hope it works out well for women healing from a C-section. nt
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varelse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-05-10 08:28 PM
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50. If this was done without her written permission
it was wrong. Such an act is a violation of human rights.
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scheming daemons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 01:46 AM
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54. About 6 kids too late, if you ask me
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mrs_p Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:04 AM
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58. i am having a hard time believing her
Edited on Wed Jan-06-10 02:21 AM by mrs_p
i mean, there is too much these doctors and nurses would have risked for this one patient. plus, she is my age and started breeding at age 14 (well, probably 13 to have had the baby at 14) - there just seems something mentally ill about that...

:shrug:

on edit: plus, how did she just bring in the IUD and hand to the nurse? and, can you even have an IUD implanted at a C-section? i mean, if this really happened, it is bad - but i'm just not sure it did.
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spoony Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:11 AM
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59. Damn some of you are scary
Edited on Wed Jan-06-10 02:12 AM by spoony
Talking about sterilising the poor and bitching that "your" tax dollars are spent on their children. Who needs RWers when we have conservative talking points in such abundance.
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leftstreet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:15 AM
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62. +1
:scared:
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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 02:15 AM
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63. Yup.
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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-06-10 05:14 PM
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66. WOW - when did bitching about "your tax dollars" for people on "welfare" become a liberal value?
For fuck's sake, did I stumble on free republic by mistake?

Here's a fucking hint, people: "reproductive rights" don't solely entail the right to have an abortion. It means the right to have YOUR BODY and YOUR FERTILITY belong solely to YOU without some fucking authority figure forcing you to have more/fewer children. It means if this lady wants to have nine kids, THAT'S HER RIGHT. It also means that if she had instead had nine abortions, THAT IS ALSO HER RIGHT. What is so FUCKING HARD to understand about that?

Do I personally approve of her decision to have nine kids by multiple fathers? Not really. Would I approve if she'd had nine abortions? Not really. Does it matter what the fuck I think? NO! Her RIGHTS are not subject to the approval or disapproval of any other busybody in the entire goddamn country. Jesus H. Christ I can't believe I have to define the essence of civil liberties on DU of all fucking places.

Beyond that, the fact that some of you are openly advocating for sterilization and eugenics for people who've made "the wrong choices" is positively bone-chillingly fascist. For fuck's sake, and to think some of you call yourselves liberal.
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