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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 12:22 PM Original message |
National Study Finds Widespread Sexual Harassment of Students in Grades 7 to 12 |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
1. There's far too much sex portrayed on TV, on video games, in music videos... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:11 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Yes. We have to eventually accept that making anything and everything |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:14 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. It's wrong. Surely adults can control their sexual urge to watch sexual things until the kids are |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. It's just not considered as a 'big deal'. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:59 PM Response to Reply #8 |
22. Sexual clowns and disrespect |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
28. Your Claim Would Only Have Merit If There Weren't Sexual Harrassment |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:19 PM Response to Reply #28 |
37. We've gone from women being chattel, to women being sexual clowns, with not much of a break |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:43 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. Oh so very well said. (nt) |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:52 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Thank you! It feels so good to tell the truth. nt |
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MedicalAdmin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:14 PM Response to Reply #37 |
56. Objectivization is pervasive, invasive, and darned hard to root out. |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:09 PM Response to Reply #1 |
35. Not to sound like an old fuddy duddy but I have to agree. It's gotten rediculous. |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:22 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Very true. And the media needs to be told to tone it down, or they won't... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
2. or... a parent can parent and there is not this issue because the children see the hurtful manner. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
3. 40% of boys are sexually harassed? |
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yesphan (295 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 12:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Those boys are most likely |
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Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:00 PM Response to Reply #4 |
23. Being called gay, I'm sure. nt |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:30 PM Response to Reply #23 |
60. Yup. I was bullied because people thought I was gay. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:15 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Mocking or ridiculing someone based on their perceived sexual preference |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
41. I was in high school - it's definitely not uncommon. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #3 |
59. I was one of them. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
9. This has been true since...well, forever, pretty much. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:44 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I agree. Back in the dark ages (the 60s) when I was that age there was |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 06:16 PM Response to Reply #11 |
50. The 70s too. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:47 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. The lack of simple solutions doesn't preclude any attempt to find them. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 02:52 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. The problem is finding a solution that isn't more damaging than the original complaint. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:03 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Social acceptance has to change. Adults have to set a better example. |
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BR_Parkway (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
24. Isn't this more of a case of what changed was what is considered |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:22 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. re: Social acceptability, that's what I was alluding to in post 15. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:31 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. absolutely. we are not talking about awakening sexuality. talking about harassment and assault |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:50 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Exactly. (nt) |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:37 PM Response to Original message |
10. My 14 year old daughter and her pals dealt with an issue earlier this year. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 01:49 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Giving someone a hard time isn't necessarily bullying. |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. I'm pretty impressed by your daughter's friends |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. When she started to high school she was "adopted" by older kids. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:48 PM Response to Reply #10 |
20. this is how it was in my day. were there times, from a few guys? ya. and boys and girls alike |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
17. "unwelcome sexual behavior that takes place in person or electronically" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:27 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Perhaps it might be viewed as not being inevitable when it's children. |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:28 PM Response to Reply #17 |
27. I imagine that a number of people... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:46 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. I disagree in one funadmental way. |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:26 PM Response to Reply #31 |
39. I've never heard of the John Ashcroft derailment |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:47 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. It's really not that hard to tell when ogling is or is not appropriate. |
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davidthegnome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 08:58 PM Response to Reply #45 |
54. Enjoy being stared at? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. i am standing in line behind a couple |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 11:33 PM Response to Reply #54 |
61. I think you're not someone who needs to worry about your actions. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 04:36 PM Response to Reply #17 |
64. Thanks for pretending to minimize the experience in your own mind. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 07:06 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. "I don't even know how to respond to that" |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
21. I know from experience that most of it comes from adult men |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:25 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Yeah, I imagine most women have a story or 30 about that kind of thing... |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
30. I was in junior high and high school from 65 to 72. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 04:49 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I think the popular campaigns about anti-gay bullying are helping to fuel this... |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
34. Even though these numbers sound high ... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:43 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. I'm not sure what your point is... |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:50 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. The point is that we're making progress. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:53 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. i think in the last decade we have regressed. nt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 06:28 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. I think the response to this thread shows otherwise. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
36. Cain's been busy (nt) |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:31 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. LMFAO |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
44. Ask Your Girlfriends How Many Ever Brushed Their Hair To Cover Their Boobs |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 06:29 PM Response to Reply #44 |
52. Or started slumping their shoulders... |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
49. I teach Juniors and Seniors |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 06:31 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. What a sad situation. |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
55. Kick. |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-07-11 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
57. Kick. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 01:50 AM Response to Original message |
62. I got hassled constantly by girls in P.E. Class |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-08-11 06:24 AM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Just the girls? |
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