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Are_grits_groceries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 05:57 AM Original message |
I was molested when I was very young. |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 05:58 AM Response to Original message |
1. So sorry |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 06:10 AM Response to Original message |
2. I just saw a run of that whinging "JoePa" footage--I was a bit disgusted by it. |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 06:11 AM Response to Original message |
3. ... |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 06:20 AM Response to Original message |
4. There were many people who failed including some parents of the boys who were hurt. |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 05:00 PM Response to Reply #4 |
58. Why on earth do you blame "some parents" of the boys who were sexually assaulted/raped? |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:46 PM Response to Reply #58 |
70. Well if all parents who knew about it reported it then they are not at fault. |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 07:06 AM Response to Reply #70 |
86. Again I ask you for fact to support your accusation. |
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Lionessa (842 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:31 PM Response to Reply #4 |
74. The movie "Doubt" comes to mind. IF (and that's a big IF) the parent knew |
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PCIntern (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 06:22 AM Response to Original message |
5. My parents were separated when I was very young |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 06:26 AM Response to Original message |
6. I have a dear friend who went through the same betrayal as a child. |
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Remember Me (730 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:02 PM Response to Reply #6 |
61. Aside from Are Grits Groceries' brilliant essay, the next most brilliant |
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cyrakitty (13 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 06:30 AM Response to Original message |
7. Your post is beautifully stated. |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 12:30 PM Response to Reply #7 |
28. I am so sorry that this happened to you. |
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me b zola (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:03 PM Response to Reply #7 |
36. Welcome to DU |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:44 PM Response to Reply #7 |
48. ... |
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democrank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:21 AM Response to Original message |
8. I`m so sorry. |
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Ohio Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
9. K&R - nt |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
10. Eloquent, memorable post. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
11. so important to tell our stories... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
12. Thank you for saying this. |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:08 AM Response to Original message |
13. Thank you for sharing this - some may not realize how deeply this affects people - |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
14. Thank you for posting this. |
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
15. Thank you for posting this. |
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progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:11 AM Response to Original message |
16. ... |
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rhett o rick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
17. This case demonstrates the horrible priorities we have in this country. Nothing is more important |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #17 |
38. When you turn sports into a religion |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
18. It was nearly twenty five years before I ever uttered a word about my own molestation.. |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:44 PM Response to Reply #18 |
49. I'm so sorry. |
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spanone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
19. k&r.. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
20. Thank you. I was not abused, but I have known people who were, |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:40 AM Response to Original message |
21. I'm sorry that happened to you. Thanks for posting. So much of what you posted |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
22. This PSU alum is sick, but hopes that parents will use it as a teaching tool |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #22 |
42. Same here, Patiod. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
23. I am so sorry you went through that! *hugs* |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
24. K&R. I was in a relationship with a woman several years back who |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
25. the monumental selfishness of those who destroy the life of someone defenseless... |
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zentrum (125 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
26. Beautifully and truly written. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
27. . |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 12:32 PM Original message |
Thank you for coming forward and bravely sharing your experience. I know it will cut |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm so sorry this happened to you. People need to hear this. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 12:39 PM Response to Original message |
30. K&R |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
31. hugs to you |
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Scuba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
32. Keep healing. We love ya. n/t |
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sellitman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
33. You are a roll model for all descent human beings |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
34. My dear Are grits |
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Nostradammit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
35. "Hurricane of shame" is exactly right. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
37. This pedophile problem has been going on for millennia -- and we need to understand that reality ... |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #37 |
44. Well put. nt |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-12-11 03:36 AM Response to Reply #37 |
89. I had not thought about Freud's part in all this. |
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CarrieLynne (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
39. ((((love n hugs)))))) you are so brave to share this with us! |
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Auntie Bush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
40. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hope your post will give |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
41. K&R. |
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tawadi (631 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
43. K&R |
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OneGrassRoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
45. I was as well, and I have a theory: |
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Dont call me Shirley (396 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
46. Try EMDR, it works. |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
47. I'm so very sorry, Are_grits_groceries. |
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GTurck (569 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
50. Same for me... |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
51. You are an eloquent and talented writer- thank you for |
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countmyvote4real (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 12:27 AM Response to Reply #51 |
79. ditto that. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
52. Deleted message |
malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
53. How sad! |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
54. Thank you |
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spin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
55. K&R (n/t) |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
56. Thank you for your stepping forward to talk about this. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
57. I was abused when I was six |
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DeSwiss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
59. K&R n/t |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
60. Goddamn those who start asking if you are bringing up "false memories." |
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Remember Me (730 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:07 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. +1 Those people have done a LOT of damage |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 11:53 PM Response to Reply #60 |
76. Thank you for saying that... |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 12:02 AM Response to Reply #60 |
77. You can thank the psychology industry for that ... |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 12:26 AM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Exactly. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #77 |
88. Excellent, important post. nt |
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rurallib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
63. me too - by a priest |
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Raksha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
64. Thank you for your heartfelt honesty. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
65. Very couragious |
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2Design (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
66. Thank you for putting these feelings and behavior into words |
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OffWithTheirHeads (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
67. All I can say is me too |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
68. Aww I am so very sorry this happened to you. You are tremendously courageous though |
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freshwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
69. Thank you very much. |
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hlthe2b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
71. the kids rallying for JoePA need to hear from those like you... |
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alp227 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
72. People have been defending JP because he only reported to his bosses |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
73. There's also a BIG QUESTION about why the guy didn't try to stop the attack on the 10 year old????? |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-10-11 10:01 PM Response to Original message |
75. (hugs) |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 01:04 AM Response to Original message |
80. With all the stories in the news this week it is inevitable that you would |
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kas125 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
81. I'm sorry it happened to you. And to me and all four of my sisters. |
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SunSeeker (52 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 01:55 AM Response to Reply #81 |
82. Heartbreaking. |
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kas125 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 02:53 AM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Oh, I know, Mike McQuery is the hardest part of the whole thing |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 02:19 AM Response to Original message |
83. so beautifully said |
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efilon (90 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 02:54 AM Response to Original message |
85. I understand |
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olegramps (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-11-11 09:33 AM Response to Original message |
87. The students that continue to support him are future Republican Leaders. |
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