I did see the argument that an EO would not make it permanent and could be overruled by a Republican in two or four years while getting Congress to make it a law was a much more permanent solution.
I did not see that argument at all because laws enacted by Congress can be repealed later by Congress just as the same President or a different President can overrule an EO. Didn't Congress enact DADT, then repeal it a few years later? And doesn't Truman's EO desegregating the military stand unrepealed to this day?
Sure, it's somewhat harder to change control of Congress than it is to change control of the WH--though control of Congress changes a lot more frequently now than it did after FDR--but there are also certain political realities. It is one thing to attempt to block something by parading generals in front of Congress to say it needs more study, but repealing something after the fact--after it has gone smoothly for two or three years, is entirely a different matter.
Even if a segregationist, er, I mean a "states rights" President had gotten into office after Truman, would he or she dare repeal the desegregation EO? I very much doubt it.
I very much doubt a Republican President would have repealed any other equal rights EO for the military that they praise so much. I don't know if they could even get the generals to testify about that, given how desperate the volunteer army was for bodies when Obama took office. (The bright side of drone murders is that they require fewer troops than invading country after country.)And there are many gay Republicans, too, including those who were challenging DADT in the courts--challenges the D of J fought every step to the bitter end, btw.
Actually I never understood why this was not done as soon as Dems took over in Jan 2009. The public was not opposed to it so it made no sense to meBut later I began to realize that it was deliberately being kept off the table until after the election, to use as a peace offering to the base of the party after extending the Bush Tax Cuts. I believe a deal was made with Republicans to hold those issues until after the election and they, Repubs, would let it pass to help temper the expected anger at Obama for caving on the Bush Tax cuts.
Maybe, but I think Republicans would have had a hard time denying equal rights to the military. It is an indefensible position, to say that America will eagerly allow gays to become maimed or dead, but will not allow them to tell the truth. I think they waited until after midterms because Democrats in Congress who had to run for re-election in red and purple states feared it might hurt them more in an off year than in a Presidential election year. And, indeed, they were very vulnerable in 2010, in part because it was an off year but, IMO, also in part because they had not produced from 2006 (also an off year) through 2010 what voters expected them to produce.
I think Obama extended the tax cuts because Geithner told him he would make the economy worse if he didn't extend them and Obama believed him. I think he waited until after midterms to extend them so it would like he had to bargain with the Republicans for them.
If he did make a deal with Republicans and expected them to keep it once he had fully performed his end, he is far more reckless than I ever imagined him to be.
But, as we are both guessing, your guess is as good or better than mine. Probably better, as it is more devious. I put much stock in the widespread application of the Occam's razor theory. It may have a place in some things, like making a medical diagnosis. Not so much when it comes comes to politicians trying to balance holding on to a Democratic base with their perceived need to be Republican for the indies in the purple states.
And, I had heard/read that Obama finished evolving his position on gay marriage when he did because gay fundraisers and bundlers were balking this time around. They had felt betrayed by Clinton and Obama and were refusing to go forward a fourth time on faith. Or, so I heard/read.