The classic, short version definition of socialism is government's owning the means of production.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/socialismFor example, I don't think we have socialized medicine simply because the 99% is given free or truly affordable access to medical care via government intervention, including health insurance that we purchase (if we can afford to purchase) from government, instead of purchasing from private insurane . I think that gives us a more human(e), just and enlightened society than the law of the jungle gives us. Also a more economically workable society for both employers and employees, but I don't think that would give us socialism. I think we have socialist medicine only when government owns and controls the hospitals, doctor's offices, etc.
I also don't think we have socialism simply because govenment scoops money out of paychecks for pensions and then scoops money out of pensions for Medicare.
I don't see Western Europe as a group of socialist nations because they make some things available to citizens free or at low cost or sliding scale rates.
My fellow student--the one mentioned in my prior post-- was very much talking about government's owning the means of production. And his statements were the ones that I was reacting to.
I think a government trying to gain control of the means of production (going socialist) has to nationalize (some might say confiscate) places of business because GE, for one, is not simply going to hand the government the keys to the shop(s) and neither are the owners of any other industry.
What you say about the right is coincidental In my perception, it's the right that calls everything "socialism," rather than using the word narrowly, as the dictionary defines it. That makes it easier for them to smear programs that use tax dollars for the benefit of the 99% and to laughably call Obama a "socialist."
If you think about all the zanyzillions and years our government and media devoted to discrediting socialism, the RW now has it way to easy to smear every program that benefits the 1% as Socialist, whether it involves government ownership of the means of production, or not.
What definition of the term "socialism" are you using?