began dating Soon Yi, for whom he had been a parental figure, at least as early as her high school years. when she was a high school years. She is 35 years his junior, but that was less shocking to me than the fact that he had helped raise her since she was about eight years old and was a father figure to her and Farrow's other children for about a dozen years.
When the Woody Soon Yi mess first hit the fan, people reported having seen Allen out and about alone with Soon Yi, mostly at ball games, from the time Soon Yi was in her freshman year in high school, if not sooner. At the time, her mother and his lover thought Allen's forays with Soon Yi were simply a father figure spending time with Soon Yi and thought it cute that high schooler Soon Yi was asking for new outfits to wear when she and Allen went out alone.
Allen's defenders claim that Allen and Soon Yi were not related and did not have sex until she was about 18 and he never married Farrow, maintaining a separate, nearby, residence throughout the dozen years of their relationship. However, to my mind, these are all technicalities that could have meant little to an 8 year old child. Clearly, things like marriage certificates and separate residences did not mean a lot to either Farrow or Allen, either. For one thing, they behaved like a family. If you google, you can find many photos online where Farrow and Allen and Farrow's children appear very much like a family unit. This included adopting two children together and maybe having one biological child together.
Regardless of what the legal technicalities may have been, I cannot discount the emotional relationship that began when Soon Yi was 8 or younger. I don't believe than Soon Yi can discount that, either. I believe that, in all decency, Wood Allen should not have discounted that, either, regardless of what age she was when they first had intercourse.
Allen had taken photos of Soon Yi nude and "spread eagle." Finding the photos was how her mother, and his lover, first learned of the affair. To this, his response was only, "The heart wants what it wants."
He had also made a film showing him and Mariel Hemingway in bed, as live in lovers, when she was 16 and he was 42, in which he (as the movie character) said that he knew he should not be with Mariel, but was nonetheless with her.
I don't know about young Mariel, but other women that he cast in his films were his wife or lovers in real life, from second wife Louise Lasser, to Diane Keaton to Farrow herself. He had an affair with a 17 year old actress/NY high school student whose part in Annie Hall landed on the cutting toom floor. (She was born near the year that Mariel Hemingway was born.) His first wife sued for joking in his stand up routines that she had not resisted a sexual assault by a stranger that she had suffered during their marriage. His early films abound with the supposedly humorous portrayal of things like bestiality, far from the norm for mainstream movies in the 1970s.
I don't know what, if anything happened between him and his then seven year old daughter. However, I have no idea why, in light of his other behavior, especially with her sister, anyone would automatically disbelieve Dylan Farrow, and even less idea why people who have no way of knowing are speaking out. Even if he never so much as touched Dylan inappropriately, these accusations, made when she was much younger and repeated now, would show that she is very troubled and public figures should stay the hell out of it, IMO.
In any event, Soon Yi was enough for me. Once that mess became public, I stopped seeing Allen movies, even on TV. (Before that, I saw every one he made, either in the theater or on TV.) That was me. I don't advocate that anyone else do the same. However, I do advocate that public figures stop piling on as to Dylan Farrow's claims. Just stay the hell out of it.
Farrow-Allen family type photos
Woody with Mia Farrow and Soon Yi
The photo that appears at the link below one will not show up here, but shows the family-like group when Soon Yi was younger than she is in the above photos.
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Woody alone with Soon Yi, when Soon Yi was quite young.
more recently
with their adopted daughters
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