Reply #8: Dig deep inside yourself and tell him NO....

[Tom_Foolery]

I had an affair with a married woman a long time ago. I knew it was wrong, but I didn't care. When I thought it was over, she drew me back into her web. I finally told her NO. It took me a long time to get over her. I started working on myself. I learned new skills, met new people, and started living a successful life. They really hate it when you start living a successful life without them. It's so hard...I know. One thing you really need to do is teach yourself the ability to shut out any thoughts of this man. The second you start thinking of him, quickly think of something else. It works. I used to go completely blank, erasing any thoughts of her. I then focused on music, art, etc. Good luck!!! You can do it!!!! Life does get better!!!