Reply #4: Your nose rubbed in it?

[skygazer]

Doesn't sound like anyone is doing that - just that things didn't go the way you hoped they would.

That can hurt, certainly, but you don't have any idea if things would have worked out for you if you had dated. Put it in perspective - you never dated her, she's happy, what you're mourning is a "might have been" not a "once was."

And although I realize that's painful, it is essentially a fantasy. Sorry if that sounds unsympathetic - I don't mean to.