You are viewing an obsolete version of the DU website which is no longer supported by the Administrators. Visit The New DU.
Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Reply #22: I wouldn't call either my "best friend". [View All]

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-21-11 05:27 PM
Response to Reply #17
22. I wouldn't call either my "best friend".
But they are both good friends, and we've gone on overnight wine tasting trips to the Napa valley and that sort of thing. My wife is really only friends with "the cheater", but I'm pretty good friends with both of them.

I kind of life you suggestion to tell her first, though I do prefer to be anonymous. Maybe I should send her an anonymous email..."You have two weeks to tell your husband, or I will." At least that will give her the chance to be honest or end the relationship herself, without having a third party like me drop the bomb on him. If he's OK with it, it might also reduce his embarrassment at having other people "know".

If you want the gory details, I posted them upthread. It really WAS almost as blatant as making out with someone at a party. If she keeps this up, I'm also pretty sure that he'll eventually find out anyway.
Printer Friendly | Permalink | Reply | Top
 

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC