Reply #2: I think it's a cultural problem, not a Facebook problem

[sandnsea]

If its legal, it shouldn't be of concern to an employer. Maybe this will turn into a good thing eventually, and stop people from nosying into each other's lives. In most small towns you know better than to get too high on your horse because you know everybody knows your dirt the same as you know theirs. Sounds like one of these teacher's "friends" had it in for her and she didn't know it. No other reason for an approved friend to forward this stuff to an employer.

I'd recommend friending one's mother. You're much less likely to get into trouble that way. :)