Reply #3: First of all...

[liberalmuse]

That women shouldn't have been able to adopt a kid. Some of those children have serious issues, and need a kind, patient, loving, sane family to care for them. WTF did she expect with this child's background? It's fucking heartless what she did. This story absolutely infuriates me - she's done more damage than she could if she just left this child alone. I know she likely had it difficult, but that is no excuse. You don't have kids or adopt them unless you fully understand what you might be letting yourself in for. I'm glad Russia is tightening their restrictions on American adoptions. Many adoptive children have been abused and even killed by their adoptive parents. Just because a family can pass the tests does not mean they are fit to adopt. Just because you are white, Christian and 'merican does not mean you are the best candidate to adopt.