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I had the pathetic luck of growing up during Jim Crow in Mississippi, and now I live in Arizona as I watch Juan Crow take off. I have spent nights unable to sleep lately and pondered the situation based on my Jim Crow experiences with an eye how to stop Juan Crow from going as far as Jim Crow did. A lot of things seem to apply to both and as I look I see more and more of the same attitudes from those pro Juan Crow and those anti Juan Crow. I am watching as those who live with it have to deal with the same things we did during Jim Crow who didn't like it and was guilty of only living right there. I hope this will help the reader to gain an insight and form opinions that will be sensible and constructive. I have heard it is good to listen to one who has experience with any situation so you can form a constructive and effective battle that will end in a quicker and more complete solutions. I hope this helps.
Reflections of Jim Crow
I grew up in a very racist home in Mississippi that hired black people and depended on them for several important duties such as taking care of the children, doing the jobs that would keep the customers doing business with their stores, and many other things that affected the future. As a child I was able to play with black children, learn from the black women that took care of me, and when I went to the store, I got to respect and learn from the black men that worked there as well. The attitude of hate for the black people I saw in the home and the experiences that I had didn't verify each other. The more I learned the more I questioned what I saw.
I was a teen standing in front of popular store downtown of my hometown one day and a black man was standing there as well. A white man and his wife came walking along in a bitter fight with each other, the man being extremely angry, saw the black man and suddenly walked over to him, starting hitting the black man. Now the police department was right across the street so as the beating got worse some cops came out to see what was happening. Finally the black man's friends came and rescued him. I asked the cops why they just stood there and allowed this man to beat on this black man who wasn't even trying to defend himself, and the response I got was extremely shocking, they told they couldn't do anything because the guy was black and had they reacted they would have been fired and unable to work in Mississippi or any place in the South again.
I remember when Humphrey was running for President and the remarks that he hated the South and if elected he would bring pain and suffering to the area even though some of those people said they liked a lot about him, they couldn't vote for him due to his hatred of the region.
These type stories were probably common throughout the South and to this day a lot of that attitude exist. I listened to Air America and heard put downs on the South because of the political leadership, and even as a liberal Mississippian who had to deal with the supporters of these leaders, I felt isolated and more concerned I was just a ship sailing in an ocean of turbulence. I thought about my basic training days in the Air Force when I was declared to be a KKK member since I came from Mississippi and of course I had to be a racist, even though I wasn't, and most were thinking that when a young black man from Harlem N.Y. and I met it would be a fight. Well, we met and we became fast friends. We decided to have some fun and teach our flight mates a lesson and we did. Our flight members soon learned they had made a mistake when they saw us put on a false racist encounter and then start laughing and showing we actually liked each other. I learned right there that stereotyping was the problem, not just on the racist side, but the none racist side. People in our flight saw that they had make some stupid decisions based on general attitudes.
Here in Arizona there are many who don't share the views of the Juan Crowers and yet as I watch I see that same stereotyping starting to come about. We really need to not isolate the people here in Arizona who hate and are fighting this garbage, we don't need to make it where these children here see how people are good and bad from all groups without lumping all in the same group.
Martin Luther King Jr. knew he had to keep his local supporters in the South that were white (and he had some) and at the same time fight those who were the real enemy. The attitude toward Southerners nationwide did hurt progress because as we Southerners got into other areas and were cast as racist and KKK members it made it a lot easier to just throw up our hands and give up. I had that thought back in my basic training experience, but thank goodness my black friend gave me the strength not to.
We must work with those here in Arizona and the other states that this problem is so big and not cast a general net. We must educate the young people that the haters are not right and must be overcome with realizations that we can overcome it, but also those not in the area must not take away support from those fighting against this in the area. If we don't, what will happen is that we will isolate and strength the very movement we want to get rid of.
I call for all to step back, use good judgement and let's end this fast without generations of the stereotyping and false impressions that I saw in Jim Crow, and honestly still see. We can retard progress if we don't.
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